My Teen Daughter Always Borrows These 11 Cozy Basics From My Closet, Starting at $13

Hoodies, pajamas, leggings, and other items my teen and I equally love.

During a coffee chat with a friend, the topic of conversation shifted to the shared experience of having teen daughters who frequently “borrow” clothing items from our closets. From comfortable tights to elegant jewelry, my daughter seems to raid my wardrobe, much like my friend’s daughter. In jest, my friend remarked, “I suppose it can be seen as a form of flattery?”

Stylish Wardrobe Basics Your Teen Might Be Sneaking From Your Closet

It can sometimes feel like a hassle to constantly inquire whether your daughter has taken your new fleece pullover or if she has recently sported your favorite flare leggings. However, if the most fashionable and trendy girl you know is borrowing your clothes, perhaps you are more stylish and chic than you realized!

Here are 11 comfortable wardrobe essentials that your 14-year-old daughter might be borrowing from your closet, starting at just $13:

Lands’ End Anyweather Fleece Quarter-Zip Pullover

The Positive Parent bought this Lands’ End quarter-zip to wear while walking their dogs on cool Florida mornings, but it seems to disappear frequently as someone else in the house likes it too. The cozy, warm pullover turned out to be popular with teenagers as well.

This fleece pullover is crafted with anti-pill and anti-static material that holds up well in the wash and provides warmth. It features a flattering fit and a neckline that is comfortable for brisk walks in the morning. The pullover also has a zipper that allows for airflow as the day gets warmer.

Yitty Active UltraLuxe Kick Flare High Waist Legging

Being a devoted fan of ankle-fit leggings for a long time, I was initially hesitant about the resurgence of flare-leg leggings. However, after trying out this particular pair, I have become a convert. These high-waist leggings have become a staple in my wardrobe, accompanying me everywhere from the gym with a hoodie and sneakers to running errands in boots and a flannel button-down. Surprisingly, even my teenager has taken a liking to them, as I often catch myself asking, “Are those my leggings?” when she dresses up to go out.

Vivaia Faith Biker Boots

My Positive Parent and I enjoy coordinating outfits with stylish mid-calf boots and leggings or skirts. Sharing shoe sizes allows for the occasional borrowing of my preferred Vivaia boots. These snug mid-calf boots provide breathability, a waterproof exterior, and a cushioned insole for pressure relief, ensuring both comfort and style.

Manzi Super Opaque Fleece Tights, 2-Pack

These fleece-lined, opaque black tights from Manzi are my top choice for winter wear with a skirt and boots. They offer sturdiness, comfort, softness, and warmth while being resistant to snags due to their opacity and fleece lining. Even if they do get snagged, they are easy to replace as they come in a two-pack priced at under $15.

Cupshe V-Neck Cable Knit Sweater

My 14-year-old has borrowed this cozy V-neck sweater so many times that I’ve decided to let her keep it in her closet instead of mine. She enjoys wearing the soft sweater with jeans or black leggings, appreciating the delicate cutout details and ribbed edges.

The one condition for borrowing this cable knit sweater: She must place it in my laundry basket when it needs cleaning since the “hand wash only” label means I prefer to wash and air-dry it myself to maintain its excellent condition.

K’lani Dream Hair Bracelets 

When The Positive Parent and her daughter are on-the-go, they appreciate products that serve more than one purpose, saving time and space. The K’lani hair bracelets are their favorite as they are stylish hair ties that are gentle on the hair and scalp, and can also be worn as bracelets with a variety of colors and charms. They are available in different wrist sizes and color options to suit personal preferences.

These versatile hair bracelets are perfect for casual days in a sweater and leggings, as well as for adding a stylish touch to a “night out” ensemble when worn as a bracelet stack.

Bearpaw Super Shorty Boot 

Despite my desire to invest in more costly shearling boots from various brands, The Positive Parent has consistently found Bearpaw to be a reliable choice and a preferred brand. These suede boots lined with shearling offer comfort and durability, lasting through numerous winter seasons. Both my daughter and I own different versions of the Bearpaw Super Shorty Boot, as it is available in various colors and pairs well with a range of outfits such as leggings, slouchy socks, skirts, and tights.

Z Supply Melbourne Dress 

I have a strong preference for a simple, black jersey-knit dress, and this sleeveless Z Supply dress is a favorite that is frequently shared between my wardrobe and my daughter’s. The dress is crafted from a durable mid-weight jersey knit fabric that is both comfortable and breathable, while also being easy to clean and resistant to wrinkles. It’s a versatile piece that I reach for often, whether paired with sandals on warm days or layered with a cardigan and flats during cooler weather. My daughter has also enjoyed experimenting with different ways to wear it, such as accessorizing with heels and gold hoop earrings or pairing it with a sweater and her Doc Martens boots.

Ringcal Gold Hoop Earring Set, 9-Pack 

To reduce stress about the inevitable loss or damage of earrings, The Positive Parent has found these budget-friendly sets of hoops on Amazon helpful in making jewelry sharing easier with a teenager. Priced at under $20 for a pack of nine, there’s no need for worry when earrings go missing, as more can be ordered whenever needed. The quality of the hoops is satisfactory, they are comfortable for sensitive ears, and they complement outfits from both wardrobes seamlessly.

Joe Boxer French Terry Hoodie 

The Positive Parent appreciates the Joe Boxer hoodie for its lightweight and ultra-soft French terry material. Their child enjoys the variety of colors available, including pink, and the cute smiley face design on the front. This pullover hoodie is easy to wash and has a loose, comfortable fit, making it ideal for daily tasks or lounging on a cool morning. Each hoodie owned by The Positive Parent maintains its softness and coziness over time, becoming a staple in their everyday wardrobe.

Amazon Essentials Cotton Modal Pajama Set

I discovered the Amazon Essentials cotton pajama sets for their comfort during perimenopausal hot flashes, absorbing sweat and providing breathability. What started as a personal preference has now become a shared one as they mysteriously migrate from my pajama drawer to my teenager’s body the next morning. The attractive colors and soft comfort of these modal cotton PJs make them a favorite for a cozy night’s sleep.